Playing safe is important to us. If you’re coming to our parties, have fun – and please remember our guide to dungeon etiquette …

Always speak softly in a dungeon. If people are playing together, don’t interrupt them. If someone is in the middle of an erotic scene with their partner, they don’t want to hear you banging on about what was on TV last night

Give people space. Don’t crowd around them

If you use furniture, such as a cross or spanking bench, always wipe it down after use with “Clinell” wipes or spray

If you want to play with someone, ask politely once only. If they are not interested, leave them alone. No means no

If you are doing rope bondage, always have scissors on hand for quick release

No alcohol or glass in the dungeon

No photography or mobile phones in the dungeon – or anywhere at the party. If you need to make a call, step outside

If you make a mess, you clean it up (!)

Smoking, vaping and drugs of any kind are forbidden at our parties. This includes poppers and gas

No needles, knives, blood or breathplay

The party host or dungeon monitor has the last word