Dungeon Etiquette

Playing safe is important to us. If you’re coming to our parties, have fun – and please remember our guide to dungeon etiquette …

Always speak softly in a dungeon. If people are playing together, don’t interrupt them. If someone is in the middle of an erotic scene with their partner, they don’t want to hear you banging on about what was on TV last night

Give people space. Don’t crowd around them

If you use furniture, such as a cross or spanking bench, always wipe it down after use with “Clinell” wipes or spray

If you want to play with someone, ask politely once only. If they are not interested, leave them alone. No means no

If you are doing rope bondage, always have scissors on hand for quick release

No alcohol or glass in the dungeon

No photography or mobile phones in the dungeon – or anywhere at the party. If you need to make a call, step outside

If you make a mess, you clean it up (!)

Smoking, vaping and drugs of any kind are forbidden at our parties. This includes poppers and gas

No needles, knives, blood or breathplay

The party host or dungeon monitor has the last word

3 thoughts on “Dungeon Etiquette

  1. My wife Lizzy & I are looking forward for when lockdown is over, so we can attend some of the events – since we met Tim we have been looking forward to meeting everyone & so that the guys can get to meet Lizzy – we are both very excited at having the opportunity for Lizzy to be able to put on some entertainment for the guys – she loves to be the centre of attention & entertaining groups of guys – we don’t think that you will be disappointed
    Hopefully we can say hello soon to everyone & have some fun together
    PS: some pictures of Lizzy in the website below – enjoy & hope to see you all soon
    Dave & Lizzy

  2. Yes, hello Monsieur Woodward,

    A friend of mine brought up your name the other day in a conversation and I couldn’t place you among my acquaintances.
    Just wanted to know if your parties are open to women dommes with their male or female subs, since everything in your description seems to cater to male doms with their naked female subs.

    You mentioned parties you’ve hosted in the U.S. can I ask you if we’ve had the pleasure of meeting in the past or have we any mutual friends? I used to be based in the Philadelphia area, but went occasionally to the New York, DC, Baltimore and Washington parties and events. Also have some friends out West. Helped organized and host parties and events myself as I was the house Mistress at Black Phoenix (Winter Solstice 2009)… I was the Entertainment Coordinator for a Leather Pride night a couple of years back as well.
    My name is MzDominique on Fetlife, I used to go by the name of tiensprtjrs.
    I am very interested in your activities and would like to know more about your parties and events. I am presently living in France.

    Mz Dominique

    • Hello Dominique and thanks for your message

      For female doms and their male subs, I recommend my Dons & Subs party and my Formal Fetish Dinner Party

      I do not believe that we have met. I was involved with San Franciso Fetish Ball and hosted Skin Two in Atlanta. I also attended Fetish Factory in Florida, as well as Montreal Fetish Weekend in Canada and co hosted an event in Detroit once

      Would you like me to put you on my party mailing list?

      Best wishes


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